心存感激——感激你们与我今生同行（转贴）

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<p><font size="3"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; LETTER-SPACING: 1.15pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">&nbsp; 在我父母住的小区，有一对夫妻，女的是正常人，男的是个哑巴，他们每天日出而做日落而息，定时定点在街头摆一个修鞋摊，水平很好，价格公道。关键是两口子配合默契，女人总是热情地招呼来人、搬凳子、让座、收钱，男人低下头只是干活。冬天的时候两人围着一个小小的火炉，男人用脚不经意地往女人脚边踢一下，女人会很掩饰地</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; LETTER-SPACING: 1.15pt; mso-bidi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt;">把小火炉向男人身边挪。夏天，女人会伸出胳膊，用沾满灰尘的袖子，帮男人擦一下额头上的汗，他们没有语言，眼神里没有热情，但相扶相持，心存感激。</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; LETTER-SPACING: 1.15pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;">
                                <span lang="EN-US"><br/>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; LETTER-SPACING: 1.15pt; mso-bidi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt;">每天都可以看到一个驼背的老人，背一只塑料袋，在垃圾箱里翻拣着可以变成钱的废物，他头发上粘着垃圾，手黑得看不到皮肤的颜色，脸部麻木毫无表情。我在家收拾垃圾的时候，总是把有用的单独分出来，把纸箱之类的很友好地放在老人的袋子旁，每每这时，他从不说话，也没有笑容，但我知道他心存感激。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; LETTER-SPACING: 1.15pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;">
                                <br/></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; LETTER-SPACING: 1.15pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt;">??</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; LETTER-SPACING: 1.15pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; LETTER-SPACING: 1.15pt; mso-bidi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt;">有天回家，看到草丛中有只被遗弃的小狗，在寒冷和病痛中挣扎着，我伸出手，它竟像个孩子一样用乞求的眼光看着我，抱回家，给它洗干净，喂两粒消炎药，放一个大纸箱子，垫上温暖、柔软的棉絮，它静静地趴在里面，长久地温情地盯着我，它不说话，但心存感激。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; LETTER-SPACING: 1.15pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;">
                                <br/></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; LETTER-SPACING: 1.15pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt;">??</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; LETTER-SPACING: 1.15pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; LETTER-SPACING: 1.15pt; mso-bidi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt;">我认识一个年轻的妈妈，有一个六岁的儿子，妈妈比同龄的女人略显老，但每天都穿得很干净，人很精神。每天下午接上儿子后，再带到老师家学画画。有一次在幼儿园门口，我们闲聊起来，原以为她和我一样也工作清闲，说着说着才知道她在一家企业上班，工作压力很大，脑力和体力都常常不支，而且是单身妈妈。我不免从心底感到沉重和悲哀，当今社会一个女人带着幼小的孩子，该是多么地困难和无助。女人眼里的泪水一闪而过，我不忍心打听她丈夫的情况，不免站在女人的角度上抱怨起来，她静静地听着，当听到我说孩子给我增加了多少劳动让我烦躁，对生活没有耐心和信心时，她微笑着告诉我，当她每天晚上给儿子洗衣服时都有种说不出的幸福，儿子的一切，让她心存感激。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; LETTER-SPACING: 1.15pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;">
                                <br/></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; LETTER-SPACING: 1.15pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt;">??</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; LETTER-SPACING: 1.15pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; LETTER-SPACING: 1.15pt; mso-bidi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt;">是啊，心存感激。当我们在这个世界上经过，有多少生命与我们结伴而行，他们生活得更苦，社会地位更低、更卑微。然而却在生活中努力拼争着，为了生存，为了温饱，为了父母，为了孩子，不畏寒冷，不惜力气，他们演绎给这个世界的是承受、挣扎、跋涉、辗转、屈辱、抗争，他们咬紧牙关在这个世界上相偎相依。看到这些人，觉得自己实在没有什么好抱怨和消沉的。身着光鲜，生活舒适，当这些人在烈日下为生活拼命时，自己却躺在松软的沙发上，开着空调，喝着咖啡，看着叔本华的“生存空虚说”……突然有一种犯罪感，自己何德何能，生命都是一样的，在上帝面前无贵贱之分。生命其实只是一闪，人生路途很短暂，不论是光彩夺目还是灰暗无光，最终结局都是一样的，生命三分，一份泥土，一份流水，一份尘埃。坦然、微笑、愉快接受命运的一切安排。心永存感激。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; LETTER-SPACING: 1.15pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;">
                                <br/></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; LETTER-SPACING: 1.15pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt;">??</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; LETTER-SPACING: 1.15pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; LETTER-SPACING: 1.15pt; mso-bidi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt;">感激阳光普照，感激大雨倾盆，感激风和日丽，感激刺骨寒风，感激花草树木，感激小桥流水，感激大自然中的一切；感激父母，感激亲人，感激儿女，感激朋友，感激爱自己的人，感激讨厌自己的人，感激生命中出现的每一个生灵。感激你们与我今生同行。</span></font></p>

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<p>感恩于生活的每一个遭际。</p><p>说一句：感谢主啊赐给我们食物，然后用餐。</p><p>宗教的启示，同一的给人以幸福感，从感恩中获取幸福。</p><p>可又有几人真正懂得这个奥秘，真正获得了这种幸福呢？</p><p>苦苦修行的僧人也不是个个能取得。</p><p>红楼梦的《好了歌》唱道：</p><p>世上都说神仙好，唯有金银忘不了…</p><p>此文，美文。也算是对人生真谛的又一次揭示吧。</p><p></p>