人生成功七要素

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<p class="MsoNormal" align="center" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 14pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center;"><b><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">人生成功七要素（摘自美国『读者文摘』）</span></b><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black;"><br style="mso-special-character: line-break;"/><br style="mso-special-character: line-break;"/></span><b><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: black;"><p></p></span></b></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; WORD-BREAK: break-all; LINE-HEIGHT: 14pt;"><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">成功人士是怎么思想的？驱动他们的是什么？以下是每一个成功人士共有的成功七要素：</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black;"><font face="Times New Roman">
                                <p></p></font></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; WORD-BREAK: break-all; TEXT-INDENT: 21.1pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 14pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-char-indent-size: 10.55pt;"><b><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">一、承担全部责任。</span></b><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">在这个社会里，许多人一旦遭到失败便怨天尤人，从父母到政府，没人不挨诅咒。励志大师却决不会有这种受害者心态。他们的信条是：“如果注定如此，我只好一人承当。”</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black;"><font face="Times New Roman"> &nbsp;&nbsp;</font></span><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">以莱丝·布朗</span><span style="COLOR: black;"><font face="Times New Roman">
                        </font></span><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">为例，他一出生就遭父母抛弃，稍大又被列为“尚可接受教育的智障儿童”，实在大有理由自暴自弃。幸而他念中学时有位老师告诉他：“你不要因为人家说你怎样就以为自己真是怎样。”</span><span style="COLOR: black;"><font face="Times New Roman">
                        </font></span><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">布朗恍然大悟，明白自己的前途其实是掌握在自己手中，于是发愤图强，后来当上俄亥俄州议员，成为作家，如今更成了杰出的励志演说家，演讲稿酬是每小时</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black;"><font face="Times New Roman">2</font></span><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">万美元。布朗知道，生活中有些事情非个人所能左右，但我们能控制自己的思想和行动。我们必须为自己的人生负责，这是做人的本分。</span><b><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312;"><p></p></span></b></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; WORD-BREAK: break-all; TEXT-INDENT: 21.1pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 14pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-char-indent-size: 10.55pt;"><b><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">二、生活有目标。</span></b><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">励志专家与常人最大的不同之处，也许就在于他们每一天都生活有目标。“想要成为一个有作为的人，在生活中抱有目标是最重要的必需条件”，畅销书《错误区域》作者韦·恩戴尔如是说。怎样才可以确立生活目标呢？先找出一个你认为可行的奋斗目标，然后以此为宗旨创业。麦克·费利本是录音带销售员，因为坚信房地产经纪人公会需要人帮他们提高销售技巧，便创办了一家为房地产代理业培训人才的公司——麦克·费利公司。如今这家公司每年的营业额超过</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black;"><font face="Times New Roman">2000</font></span><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">万美元。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black;"><br/><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</font></span><b><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">三、制定行动计划。</span></b><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">想实现目标而无行动计划，就如同长途驾车不带地图上路。途中所浪费的时间、精力和金钱可能令你泄气，连</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black;"><font face="Times New Roman">1/10</font></span><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">的旅程都完成不了。美国著名演说家、作家、销售员培训专家布赖恩·特雷西指出：“没有用白纸黑字写下来的目标，根本就不是目标，而只是空想。”</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; WORD-BREAK: break-all; TEXT-INDENT: 21.1pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 14pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0; mso-char-indent-size: 10.55pt;"><b><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">四、愿意付出代价。</span></b><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">大房子、豪华汽车、巨额存款，这些都是人人希望得到的东西。成功人士会去查明用什么方法实现愿望，随即行动，而且不辞劳苦。莱丝·布朗左耳上结了厚茧。为什么会这样？“当年我决定加入演讲业的时候，我没有过人的资历，没有名衔，没有个人魅力，也没有经验，因此只好一天到晚给人打电话，”他说，“我每天打一百多个电话，请求别人给我机会到他们那里去演讲。这个老茧值几百万美元呢”！</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black;"><br/><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;&nbsp;<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">&nbsp; </span></font></span><b><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312;"><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</font></span></b><b><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">五、</span></b><b><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312;"><font face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</font></span></b><b><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">不断自我鞭策。</span></b><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">我访问过的励志演说家都有个明显特质：有极强的内驱力推动他们上进，不达到最好决不罢休。他们为了提高自己的技能，几乎什么事都愿意做。帕翠莎·菲利普常常应大企业的邀请去演讲，向行政人员去讲授“百尺竿头，更进一步”的方法。她尽管已是著名的演讲家，却仍不断努力提高自己演讲的本事，例如去参加一个喜剧研讨班，又雇佣一位演讲导师助她纠正缺点。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black;"><p></p></span></p><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;">&nbsp;</span><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">六、</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 楷体_GB2312;">
                </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">决不半途而废。</span></b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">其实光是永不言弃是不够的，你还必须愿意做任何有助于达到目标的事。杰克·甘菲德和马克·汉森编纂《心灵鸡汤》一书时，曾找过</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;">100</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">多家出版社商量出版此书，都碰壁了。但他们没有泄气，继续努力奋斗，后来，终于有家小公司答应帮忙。《心灵鸡汤》出版之后非常畅销，其后出版了一集又一集，总销量超过</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;">1200</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">万册。这个例子又一次证明：坚持不懈往往能创造奇迹。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;"><br/><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">&nbsp; </span></span><b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">七、办事从不拖延。</span></b><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-ascii-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">莱丝·布朗在他的著作《实现心愿》中写道，有一次他和一位名叫马利昂的朋友用电话交谈，想不到这位朋友第二天就去世了。后来布朗去帮忙清理马利昂的办公室，发现一个尚未完成的戏剧剧本。可是此剧本已永无完成之日，因为唯一知道其结局的人已经不在人间。记住，我们并不是永恒的。凡是有杰出成就的人都知道这一点，不过他们不会因此就变得消极悲观，反而因为明白人生有涯就不断鞭策自己向前，干劲十足、满怀热情地去逐步实现自己的愿望。你也可以如此。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体;"><br style="mso-special-character: line-break;"/><br style="mso-special-character: line-break;"/></span>

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